Sarah & I where watching Saturday morning TV while Ambrose was busy running in and out of the room
when h2O came on. The Australian made show features young girls, no older than 12 or 13 whom are dressed in skimpy clothing, styled to look like adults and put in situations and scenes which turn them into sexual objects. Like the baywatch style slomo run down the beach in their bikinis.
When we seen this it started a discussion, which brought us to the conclusion that modern society builds pedophiles. What is attractive and what is not is taught, not born with it. In the renascence for example plumper, more full figured women, what would now days be considered a size 14 where what was considered "sexy". Today society thinks as someone that size as over weight and ugly, in today's world you have to be young and be no larger than a size 8 to be considered "sexy" by mainstream culture.
Television, magazines and advertising increasingly display images and scenes of a sexual nature. As we continue to learn, and reshape what we consider "sexy" through-out our lives, even a 40 year old person can have a shift into new idea on what is "sexy" if exposed to new stimuli. With shows like the iconic baywatch giving us the indication that the barely clothed beach run is titillating; we learn that situations like this are of a sexual nature and call for arousal.
Even underwear is made of a sexual nature in our society. It is hidden from view. Think about it, before you found your significant other, the only time you ever seen the opposite genders underwear (other then your mothers) would have been in sexual situations. But then, primary school girls routinely do sports (especially running) in no bottoms other then their "bloomers".
Girls as young as 1 year old can own and wear bikini's. A piece of clothing which in itself presents the person in a sexual way, given it's resemblance to underwear. From children's size 2 clothing which is around 3 or 4 years old, you can buy your daughter G-Strings, skirts that barely cover anything, boob tubes (even though their body hasn't even realised what a boob is), make-up, BRAS! The list goes on.
And people actually buy this crap for their kids!
That is the scariest part! If the clothing industry is going to push for children to look more adult and sexual, Media like Television and Magazines are going to publish children dressed in adult clothing, in classically sexual positions/scenes, if the music industry is going to push their young performers (like Miley Cyrus for example) to take a more adult, sexual look on board, if we are going to allow our children to act in ways we wouldn't find society acceptable for us to act in, or which if we did so we would find it of a sexual nature; then seriously what do we expect?
Making children out to be sexual, adult, objects is wrong. And telling someone who responds to that stimuli that they are wrong is even worse. You started it by exposing them to that content in the first place. Children should be allowed to be what they are, CHILDREN! And should be dressed appropriately, both in real life AND in the media. But the fact of the matter is there are an increasing number of children's TV shows which pose kids in adult roles.
The only question left is, what will we do about it? Will we allow all these things to happen, and except pedophiles into our society? Will we allow all these things to happen but continue to be hypocritical by frowning at the pedophiles which result from the environment we expose them to?
Or what I would much rather, will we take the blinders off and actually act in the best interests of our children? We will allow them to be children, and do something to stop the sexualisation of children? Will we boycot clothing manufactures which produce kids clothing of a sexual/adult nature? Boycot TV programs which have kids in adult roles? Especially ones where the children are in sexual situations? The choice is ours, and each individual has a voice which can be heard, together, united, it's a sound which can NOT be ignored.