The human psyche never ceases to stun me; more over in this case the psyche of women specifically. How is it that a woman can go her entire life disliking her body, feeling it's unattractive. As a man, sure there are times that I look in the mirror and think perhaps I should lose a kilo or tighten this or that, but it doesn't depress me. With women however, you have perfectly attractive people thinking their disgusting which makes me pose the question; are all women mentally ill?

Every woman on the planet seems to think there is something wrong with there body, something which makes them terribly hideous. Doesn't matter who you are, it seems this is the case, from celebrity to average jane this is the psyche of a woman. Women are constantly comparing themselves to other women, wishing they "had a body like her" even though it's usually the case that the 2nd woman wishes she had a body like the 1st woman as well. Where is the rational and logic here? This does not compute!

What is worse still is that the behavior continues even after finding a mate who loves and cherishes you. Correct me if I'm wrong but I was always of the understanding that the point to being attractive is to find a mate and hold onto them. Thus if your mate finds you attractive, even gorgeous and tells you this often how is it that a woman can still have all these self doubts? It is true that one must love their own body, but if the body you have is what attracted your partner, if the body you have is what keeps your partner sticking around then at what point should you be saying to yourself "I must be attractive, else I wouldn't have a partner"?

That obligatory question "does my bum look big in these" is off the charts insane. If you say yes, you're the worst jerk in the world, if you say no you're a liar. Why is it that a woman can't just accept her bum looks how it looks in those pants? When was the last time you seen a straight man looking at his ass in the mirror wondering how it looks in "those pants". I'm sorry to inform you ladies but changing pants isn't going to change your body, you're stuck with it so it's best to just learn to love it. You are you, there is no other you alive, which means there is a lot to love about you, and someone somewhere agrees.

Attraction is a matter of perspective, what is ugly to one person can me hot as to another. For example, most of the women the media pushes down our throats to me aren't attractive. Indeed I just want to sit those girls down with a nice hot meal and feed them until their body regains a shape. A woman should have curves, it's hard wired into mens brains to find curvy women sexy. And please don't be fooled by celebrity air brushing either, their bodies so don't look like that.