Tanase just can't seem to stop. It's like she's compelled from deep inside to continually attempt to mess with my life. Today for no reason what so ever she called the police to come check on Sarahs' welfare which of course has nothing wrong with it. The Police woman actually thought the whole thing was funny because there was so obviously nothing wrong with Sarah. She then went on to send Sarah this message on myspace (after tracking her down; stalker much) blabbing some crap that she sent the police to check that I hadn't hurt Sarah. She has NO REASON what so ever to think I would hurt Sarah, she isn't even involved in my life. Tanase is just, as per usual causing trouble and annoyance of herself.
In the same day, she's tried calling me expecting I'd drop everything I'm doing and run and meet her in the CBD to discuss being allowed by her to see the kids again. I'm sorry but I do NOT bow down to her, she is NOT my lord and master. She tried intimidating me by going on that she has a lawyer, HA! what a joke. Whilst I'd obviously rather keep the matter out of court simply because of the time and energy going to court requires, I have no hesitations doing so if left with it as my only recourse. I've told her I don't need to meet her anywhere to discuss the kids and if she does want to discuss it with me, she can email me so I have a record of the conversation. That said, I'm not interested in hearing any terms from her, as far as I'm concerned she has NO RIGHT what so ever to demand anything from me.
I wish to see Z and AJ again, but only under the terms that she will no longer block me seeing them, nor think she has any right to do so. She really needs to get over herself, and evidently get some mental help.
She needs to realise we're divorced which means we don't have to put up with each other outside of matters which have to do with the kids. The only interactions we have to have with each other are pickup, drop off, special events and updating me about things like illnesses or stuff at school etc. Otherwise, we have nothing to do with each other, I have NO interest in being ANY other part of her life. The sooner she can get some help, grow up and realise these things the better off everyone involved will be.
I intend to lodge a formal complaint with the police department about her sending officers around to check on Sarah for no reason. Does Tanase not realise police have far better things to be doing with their time then getting involved in her petty & childish games?